Chapter-III: References for Various Characters

A- CHILD

Family: A group of people living together with love.

Child : Every child is a father of a man. Every man generates a child of his own perception who will be treated as child. And this child is child until unless he freed from his father spears and become man and a father.

Every father is a guru or every guru is a father to his child, every slave is a child to his master; every master is father to his slave, with respect of earthy needs. But of all human beings God is the only father and the soul is the only master.

Note: – When ever the soul disturbs make confession of action so that the disturbance will be take off and will get purified soul.

Duties : Every child should obey and listen the word of the parent / teacher who teaches good / bad and observe analyze and should select the righteous way in his journey of life.

RESPONSIBILITY OF PARENT:

1. If the child is not in a position to understand; it is the responsibility of parent to clarify the child’s mind.

2. Every parent should show lively hood to his child

3. Should study child behavior through self evaluation.

4. Should correct immoral behavior by teach morality

5. Should support or encourage child’s moral behavior.

6. Every parent should provide minimum needs until the child became man.

Way of correction: A self punishment through self evaluation. Is the only way to correct his child’s action where the seed started from.

CAUTION:

1. No parent has right to punish on immoral actions of child but necessary to study the behavior.

2. Parent has no right to hide the things in past present and future actions with respect to the child future.

3. Child has right to question or clarify doubts or persuade the things in every matter.

4. Punishment is a passive action which a child can learn through by watching.

Note: If a parent failed in the development of his child and that child become major in age; or over come in wisdom, the child should be free from the father control so that he can achieve his own success. Out of from the bondages, sins, iniquities, or punishments

Way to free: Every man will forget the parents after his marriage a marriage of physical or a marriage of spiritual, becomes independent , separate from parents spear and generate his own family

B- CHARTERISTICS OF GURU OR TEACHER

1. Guru Must not be irregular birth:

His mother & father should be pure (Is not from illegal contact). He must be a man of blueblood.

2. Guru Must be a Tapaswi:-

Must be yogi & not bhogi: – He must lead` an austere life. Once he attains austerity & right intellectuality, then only he should teach to disciples.

3. Guru should not except any returns or demand from student any thing in return. He should teach ‘Student only out of compassion and unconditional love but not by expecting something out of his student’s name fame, wealth , etc:

But if student offers anything in voluntary he can take but basically he should be reluctant to accept anything for this student feeling that he is his son.

4. Guru should teach every thing what he knows to the student. He should not keep hide the knowledge whatever is there in slokas.

5. Guru should be a kalyana – kari: – Means he must do good deeds only the way in which he is doing should be good. Must be an ideal of good karma.

6. Guru should be kalyana – kami:- means he must desirous only of doing good even though the student hurts his feelings he should not get angry with him e g. Guru in like sandal wood tree. & student in like the saw. Even though the saw cuts the trunk of tree. The tree still gives the smell of that sandal wood only but not any odd smell.

In the same way the guru should always remain alike even though his student hurts him, he should not think revenge. He shall give his companion & Love.

7. Guru must be a truthful one. If he is false he should n’t teach a students. Truthfulness is a divine quality. “Satyameva Jayathe “which had been taken from mundakopanishad means “only the truth triumph”. So to become a guru, one must observe truth Because of which he attains spiritual enlightenment. Without achieving intellectual & spiritual enlightenment are cannot because a true guru.

8. Guru must have a strong meditative mind so that he can inculcate it into the student. Meditation is such a quality which is just one step earlier to the stage of self actualization or Realization of Divine . So a man with strong meditation mind only can guide others leading the later to improve their comprehending capacity which makes possible to improve the student’s assimilation power (digesting what he was taught) (Avadharana is possible only through this)

9. Swadharma Parayana :-

Guru must stick to one path. Perfectly. So that he can understand it upto the grass root level. Only by digging the ground we can get the water from the depths. Like – wise the person who really wants to become a guru must go deeper and deeper into the abysmal depths of the subject which he has taken. Then only he can guide a student in a right direction. Ignorance in better than half knowledge.

10 Control over sense:

Guru must have proper control on his sense organs then only he becomes a yogi. The excternal forces of vagaries and miseries of life, pride prejudice, bias, partiality all these evil manifestation do not effect him all will be checked. By controlling all these sense he realizes the truth and gets very close to the divine such a yogi only can give right knowledge in the right direction to the student.

11. Nirahankarithva:

Guru should not be an egoistic person who only feels I am the only one something extraordinary. Having a little knowledge is the root cause of this egoism. As bronze makes loud noise than the Gold, so a person who a vast knowledge only can get a great quality of humility where as the person with a little knowledge feels egoistic this great quality of humanity is the out come of knowledge through which a person becomes modest i.e. gets low opinion of his own importance. This quality once guru attains then he can pass it on to the student which makes him right person who will be immune to the egoism, which is the root cause of one’s own destruction.

12. Nirogo:

A sound body will have a sound mind so the Person who wants to become a guru must be immune to all the diseases. That means if he is affected with some disease physically / mentally how can he manage a student how he can make a strong Person?

If a person. Since childhood, continuously affected by disease he cannot take the seat of a guru sareera madhyam, paradharma sadhanam. So once body should be pure without any illness. Of mind or body it can only be possible through the blessings of God.

13 Vaakpathi:

Guru must be a speaker, again it is quality borne out of blessing of the Ma saraswathi the word ‘Vani’ is another name of Maa which literally means fluency one can infuse power only through speech which help guru in presenting everything before a despise. Other wise it is not possible Sabdha Brahma – is a divine quality. A Skilfull person only can teach & inject the power into disciple and bring him out of doubts, which to distraction skillful speaker – Ashadhya Vakta - Once gets mastery of speech then only he can diver a message & student can grasp & digest that to be a skillful speaker one has to observe silence. He should be an ideal person in observing silence. By doing this the words becomes power & when he speakers all that gets directly in the minds of listeners without causing doubts.

C – ELDER-HOOD

Elder, Father, Master

Definition:-

Ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed thee:

If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly. For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward of God; not self willed, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to filthy Lucre;

But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, Sober, Just holy, temparate;

Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught that he may able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convience the gainayers. Titus 1:5-9

This is a true saying, if a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, Vigilant Sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach.

Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

(For ib a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)

Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the comdemnation of the devil. Moreover he must have a good report of them. Which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the share of the devil?

Likewise must the deacons be grave, not double tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy Lucre; Holding the mistery of the faith in a pure conscience. And let these also first be proved; then let them use the office of the decon, being found blameless.

I Timothy 3:1-10

Responsibilities:-

If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born his children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the first born son be hers that was hated:

Then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved first born before the son of the hated, which is indeed the first born:

But he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath: For he is the begining of his strength: the right of the firstborn is his.

Deuteronomy 21:15-17

All the openeth the matrix is mine: and every firstling among thy cattle, whether ox or sheep, that is male. But the firstling of an ass thou shalf redeem with a lamb: if thou redeem him not, then shalt thou break his neck. All the firstborn of thy sons thou shalt redeem. And none shall appear before me empty. Exodus 34:19-20

Rules:-

1) But he shall not defile himself, being a chief among his people, to profane himself.

Leviticus 21;4

2) And, ye masters do the same things unto them, forbearing threatening: knowing that your master also is in heaven; neither is there respect of persons with him.

Ephesians 6:9

3) Masters, give unto your servents that which is just and equal: knowing that ye also have a master in heaven. Colossians 4:1

4) Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

Colossians 3:21

5) And, ye fathers, prevoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4

Cautions:-

1) And Esau said to Jacob, feed me, I pray thee, with that same red pottage, for I am faint: Therefore was his name called Edom. And Jacob said; sell me this day thy birth right. And Esan said, Behold, I am at the point to die: and what profit shall this birth right do to me?

And Jacob said, Swear to me this day; and he sware unto him: and he sold his birthright unto Jacob. Then Jacob gave Esan bread and pottage of lentils, and he did eat and drink, and rose up, and went his way: thus Esan despised his birthright Genesis 25:30-34

And he said, is not he rightly named Jacob? For he hath supplanted me these two times: he took away my birth right; and behold, now he hath taken away my blessing. Genesis 27:36

Lest three by any fornicator or profane person, as Esau, who for one morsel of meat sold his birthright for ye know how that afterward, when he would have inherited the blessing, he was rejected: for he found no place of repentance, thou he sought it carefully with tears.

Hebrew 12:16-17

D-SLAVE

Slave: definition:-

1) Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus. Who being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:

And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient onto death, even the death of the cross. Philippians – 2:5-8

2) Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?

But God thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you. Being then made free from Sin, ye became the servants of righteousness. Ramans 6:16-18

3) I thank God through Jesus Christ our lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God: but with the flesh the Law of Sin. Romans 7:25

4) While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: For of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought inbondage. II Peter 2:19

5) Now I say, that the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servent, though he be lord of all. But is under tutors and governors until the time appointed of the father. Even so we, when we were children, were in bondage under the elements of the world.

Galatians 4:1-3

6) He that is despised, and hath a servant, is better than he that honoureth himself, and Lacketh bread. Proverbs 12:9

7) He that troubleth his own house shall inherit the wind: and the fool shall be servant to the wise of heart. Proverb 11:29

The borrower is the servant to the lender. Proverb 22:7

9) Verily, verily, I say unto you, whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin.

John 8:34

Slave – Norms

1) If thou buy an Hebrew servant, six years he shall serve: and in the seventh he shall go out free for nothing.

If he came in by himself, he shall go out by himself: if he were married, then his wife shall go out with him. If his master has given him a wife and she have born him sons or daughters; the wife and her children shall be her master’s and he shall go out by himself.

And if the servant shall plainly say, I love my master, my wife, and my children; I will not gout free; then his master shall bring him unto the Judges; he shall also bring him to the door, or unto the door post; and his master shall bore his ear through with an ant; and he shall serve him for ever. Exodus 21:2-6

2) And if a man smite his servant, or his maid, with a rod, and he die under his hand; he shall be surely punished. Notwithstanding, if he continues a day or two he shall not be punished: For he is his money. Exodus 21:20-21

3) And if a man smite the eye of his servant or the eye of his maid, that it perish; he shall let him go free for his eye’s sake. And if he smite out his man servants tooth, or his maid servant’s tooth; he shall let him go free for his tooth’s sake. Exodus 21:26-27

4) Delight is not seemly for a fool much less for a servant to have rule over princes.

Proverb 19:10

Duties and Responsibilities:-

1) Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ; Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart;

With good will doing service, as to the lord, and not to men, knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall be receive of the lord; whether he be bond or free.

Ephesians 6:5-8

2) Servants, obey in all things yours masters according to the flesh: not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but in singleness of heart, fearing God; And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the lord and not unto men;

Knowing that of the lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the lord Christ. But he that doeth: And there is no respect of persons. Colossians 3:22-25

Cautions:-

1) For, brotheren, ye have been called unto Liberty, only use not liberty for an occasion to the blesh, but by love serve one another. Galatians 5:13

2) For though I be free from all men, yet have I made myself servant unto all, that I might gain the move. I Carianthians 9:19

3) Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. Art thou called being a servant/ Care not for it; but if thou majest be made free, use it rather.

For he that is called in the lord being a servant, is the lords freeman: Likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ’s servant. Ye are brought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.

I Carinthians 7:20-23

4) I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of you flesh: For as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness. Ramans 6:19

Definition:-

Issa-Char is a strong ass couching down between two burdens. And he saw that rest was good, and the land that it was pleasant; and bowed his shoulder to bear, and became a servant unto tribute.